Bella Vida

“Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where we stand” When it feels like everything is crashing down in our lives, we have to learn a lot about ourselves to know where we stand. It looks easy when we say it that way, but it is probably the scariest thing to do. Because we must question ourselves, about everything we are going through to know how to make it better. However, you do not have to worry, if you are going through something like that, just have to take the time you need to process everything and take care of yourself.

“When you are filled with self love you make better choices.” Every choices you make in life is influence by how you value yourself. Because your, self-esteem is the key to the respect of what you believe in and your values by others. Every day you have to take decisions, you have to think about how it makes you feel and how it will affect you in different ways. For example : if you are in a toxic relationship and your boyfriend makes you feel bad or question yourself for no good reasons and you have asked him to explain himself, so many times or simply to stop, you have to ask yourself, if you truly want to be treated like that and if he truly care for you.

" No one is you and that is your power" Repeatedly, in life you will propably ask yourself : why everything is base on what we are suppose to be, act or look like, oppose to what we want to be, act or look like ? Even if it feels like that, take the chance to learn to love yourself and don't mind what others think of you. Live your life to the fullest and be yourself because that is the rarest and reamarkable  way you can be.